Monday, March 25, 2019

Mrs. Pocha and Why


Believe it to be Pocha to convince me to write on a topic that I would never want to discusss
Believe it to be Pocha to completely ignore the guest from the groom's list and shout out Obhishiktaaaa loudly from the stage
Believe it to be Pocha to sit across the fire with shupuris on both cheek and still talk,  read demand,  to be included in selfies
Believe it to be Pocha to call 'boxers' to hold her during shubho-drishti and complete all seven rounds
Believe it to be Pocha to go all commando on the most important day and night of her life
Believe it to be Pocha to leave her royal chair and sit with us,  almost sacrificing all the gifts, to bitch
Believe it to be Pocha to make us laugh like that


Monday, March 18, 2019

Thursday, March 14, 2019

The Art, of Loving




It was during one of the darkest periods of my life (atleast that's what I thought that time)  that I was introduced to the Art of Living.  My mother never quite approved the authenticity of the organization,  the belief,  but the Orthopaedic Oil from AOL worked wonders for her so she did not complain much (not that she has EVER complained about my life decisions beyond a point till last week) when I first enrolled for the 'Happiness Program'.  The person who introduced me to it chose to part ways with me later, but I will forever be grateful for this one thing.
The same person and the same Happiness Program broke a very important news to me the next year and gave me the much needed closure. That evening, in between the Kriya,  when even though I was broken and could not breathe to SO-HAM,  I first believed in the energy of Gurudev to guide/push/force you in the direction which you have to walk anyway,  for better or worse,  I'm yet to conclude.



That was that and there have been visits to the Bangalore ashram very happily.  The roommates have made fun of the 'pahar hai baju mein'. The place has never disappointed anyone and I was very pleased when Being Social chose ahram for their Valentine's Day celebration with the orphanage and old age home folks.
What started with a very early Sunday morning and ended on a Monday morning high and cry had a beautiful day in between with the detailed ashram tour being the highlight.
The bright eyes with which the kids had the ashram food while we made a face,  the sloppy prolonged kisses from the kids galore because I was in charge of the sandwich dept., the shake of leg by the Granny at a known Kannada song, the genuine attempt of a kid to stop the tears of other,  the sleepy but sincere bye bye when we parted,  the takeaways,  the real takeaways! The art of loving which I thought I had mastered,  first time ever,  returned back in manyfolds from the kids.

As the good old school anthem said,
To be loved,  as to love with all my soul!
Here,  at least here.




Tuesday, March 12, 2019

Ouch


It's funny how many many lives have been colored by the song,  for worse always, for worse.
Someday I was planning to write on the song and never had the strength.  Someone did,  I could have said it better but ouch!
So glad the roommate is off the song finally. 
Guess it's just me and the song now.
So be it.
So long Kolkata. 
Not returning anytime soon,  for the shame and sham and the song.

Monday, March 4, 2019

We Shall Overcome


We have forever heard and loved the song all over!  I remember my dad singing the English,  Bengali and Hindi version of it, sipping his tea on Saturdays and Sundays in the old red house, and Nana joining in.  It was way later when I truly understood the power of the song.

Today,  we went to teach 33 kids from the orphanage nearby. Sunday being Sunday and kids being kids, we had to give off the last one hour to cricket.  Being horrible at batting and getting scolded by the baby captain, being slightly better at bowling, taking a wicket and getting victory clap from baby captain,  being taught on how to juggle with a football without shoes,  in red sand and epic sun by the 3 year old being the highlights of the day, the childhood song came back to me and how.

These babies,  stood in 3 lines,  of 11 each and sang "We Shall Overkaaaaaaaaam" to welcome us.  One with nose flowing,  one with milk teeth missing,  most with no chappals and dirty clothes,  the sincerity with which the kids looked into our eyes for their "welcome song" made me numb.
I had never been 'welcomed' so warm.
And to think of it,  while we complain about every thing possible,  these 33 kids with one bat, two footballs and a Government school hostel to call their home still have so much hope left.

Here's hoping that they really do overcome and have the best ever, forver.